Monday, May 11, 2015

Journal # 2: Is it appropriate to break up with someone via text message

Personally I don't think breaking up over text is the best thing. I say this, because it shows a line of disrespect and that you really didn't care about that person at all. If a person wants to leave the relationship I believe that he/she should meet in person to make it easier for the break up. I feel as though if people break up over text it makes it easier for themselves.If your looking towards long term relationships stay to it, but don't break up with some that you been with for almost 9 years and call it quits, because y'all formed this bond that was unbreakable and he/she broke that trust. Being able to tell the person face to face is better choice to make, because you're showing respect towards that person. In all honesty break up face to face instead over text because it shows that you will show some empathy and not give off a rude feeling.
Feelings is the main thing that evolves around a break up I know I wouldn't allow for something that low to be towards my break up.  I take feelings into consideration, because I know how it would feel if I got my feelings hurt like that especially over technology. Break ups should be face to face not screen to screen, voice to voice, or word to word. Everyone deserves dignity when it comes to breaking up it's a line of respect and respect is everything when it comes to breaking up whether its in person or over text messaging. The only way I would say it's acceptable if the person cheated and he/she did you terribly wrong and also if there's distance between you two and you don't want to travel all the way for a break up. If you wanna break up with someone make it thoughtful and being respectful to the second party.

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